Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Day 322 ~ "V" is for Vacation!

"V" is for Vacation... a family Vacation in a Villa.  Vasting in the sun while splashing in the Mediterranean as the vineyards ripen...  

Wow almost sounds like the beginning of some romantic novel.  Big smile.  Seriously...

One of my goals, my dream... is to go on a month long vacation with anyone in our family that will join us, my husband, children and a few good friends.  

Whether we go to the beaches of Hawaii, a cruise in the Caribbean, tour Europe and its beautiful castles or just romp around in our own backyard (the good ol' US of A), it does not matter... As long as I am with my loved ones.


I know I will have made it when I am able to fulfill my "Dream Family Vacation"! 

"If God had really intended men to fly, he'd make it easier to get to the airport."

~George Winters



"Just as soon as I get back from this vacation, I'm gonna need a vacation "
~Unknown 


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Blessings...

43 days to go...  

... for a, l & c.  You are my sunshine(s).  


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Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Day 321 ~ "U"nderstanding

"U" is for Understanding.  
First thing... let's see what Miriam-Webster has to say about my chosen "U" word.
noun 1 :a small grasp  :comprehension
2 a  :the power of comprehending; especially  :the capacity to apprehend general relations of particular
b  :friendly or harmonious relationship
adjective 1 archaeic :knowing, intelligent
2 :endowed with understanding :tolerant, sympathetic <an understanding supervisor>
transitive verb a : to grasp the meaning of <understanding Russian>
b :to grasp the reasonableness of <his behavior is hard to understand>




I know, a little overkill.  As I've said before... bare with me.  lol.

When I hear this word, I also hear serenity, calmness and in some instances faith.

There is some sense of serenity when it comes to understanding.  Think about it, once you truly understand something which you have battled to comprehend don't you start to calm down?  Not to imply that you completely just lost it and threw a temper tantrum... but you do get a little agitated by comparison.  
Therefore coming to an understanding with yourself, understanding a task or a concept that was once difficult to do so, brings on serenity itself.

Furthermore, when an obstacle presents itself in your life, one that has you scratching your head... and when you finally come to the understanding that you must let go, let God... that faith there is what helped me to come to that initial understanding. 

I realize now there were times in my life that a little understanding would have gone a long way, and what a difference that would have made in my life too!  

Yet, another example of further understanding of the "understanding" process as yet another sign of aging! LOL! 

Peace cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved by understanding.

~Albert Einstein

Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding.

~Mahatma Gandhi

To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

~Tony Robbins

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44 days to go...  

... for a, l & c.  You are my sunshine(s).  


Images are courtesy of google or Bing images.  Some images maybe labeled property of Carla Barila Karam and of this blog, Taking Back My Life ~ Making It My Own.  U.S Copyright laws apply.  © 2012

Monday, April 23, 2012

Day 320 ~ "T" ... T ... Time...

"T" is for Time... TIME... 
noun... the measured or measurable period during which an action, process, or condition exists or continues : duration
verb... to arrange or set the time of : schedule
adjective... of or relating to time

The first thing that comes to my mind relating to time is being late.  I am horrified about being late, or rather being on time.

My very first memories where time itself was an issue, was that of my father complaining of how my mother was always late to everything.  

Now... when "time" became a sensitive issue to me was when I was in grade school.  Third grade or so.  My brother, sister and I lived in Santa Monica with our mother, across the street from my elementary school.  I was late everyday!  

Yes.  I was late every day.  Every day I was horrified to walk into class.  Every day I was teased and ridiculed because of it...  

I share this with you all very matter of fact.  It doesn't bother me anymore.  That was then.  Now is now.  

As long as I can remember... I have always given myself plenty of time to be on time.

Furthermore... 

I firmly believe that when an appointment is made... when YOU have made an appointment... from the moment that time is set... from the moment that block of time has been set aside especially for you...the least you can do is be on time in appreciation for said action.

... this person whom you are meeting with has taken the time to set a block of time aside especially for you...

With that said... when "a person" is late, "they" are more or less telling the person with whom 'they" have set an appointment with that they do not matter.  

Obviously, you need something from this person (or company they represent) otherwise why meet?

I know that everyone has their own opinion... 

Me... my goal is to be on time, every time.  This is their first impression of our meeting together, and it should be a positive one.  What I need out of our encounter matters to me.  

By being on time, think of it as a nice way of saying thank you for their time and what they say matters to you.


On another note... time can have a bad rap by either moving too slow or not fast enough.  Time has had a reputation for creeping up on a person.  You can even say that at times there's not enough of time, and then on the other hand there are others who just can not wait for time to just pass.  

Time is good to some, while leaving others at its mercy. 

Time brings all things to pass.
~Aeschylus


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45 days to go...  

... for a, l & c.  You are my sunshine(s).  


Images are courtesy of google or Bing images.  Some images maybe labeled property of Carla Barila Karam and of this blog, Taking Back My Life ~ Making It My Own.  U.S Copyright laws apply.  © 2012