- You can't say anything negative about your husband . . . to your husband . . . or to anyone else, about your husband.
- Say something that you admire or appreciate about your husband . . . to your husband . . . and to someone else, about your husband!
Day 22 ! . . .
I'm going to keep this simple and not let it get too wordy.
I can't tell you how many times kindness has nipped me in the butt! LOL!
I think the hardest thing to do is to be kind to someone who is downright mean.
I am definitely not speaking of my husband... he is far too kind.
I really don't have to go out of my way to speak kind of him... especially when everyone else already is doing so.
My husband has done well for himself. He is far too kind and has always been known as such.
If anything, I sometimes think "what the heck is he doing married to me?!"
Oh... let me get something straight here... I am not mean. I just have been hurt so much that I have taken my hurt out on others. "Scapegoating." I can't be more honest than that.
However... I tend to go out of my way to protect myself and my family and am far more on the defense than he is.
My husband is kind, loving and very giving. He has not seen not even 10% of the cruelty that I have seen. He never thinks or looks at things or people as I do. I am always very skeptical and he is so trusting.
With that said... this is was makes us so different.
He grew up in a loving, supportive family... divorce and all.
I on the other hand, saw nothing but spite, revenge and ugliness...
So when it comes to building my husband up... well... his actions have already taken care of that.
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... for a, l & c. You are my sunshine(s).
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